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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2006 19:20:21 GMT
Wel me and my ex are really good mates and when we say goodbye he always says love you babs and i say love you dude. we still love each other in a bf gf way but are not together due to certain circumstances.... some of my mates think it is wrong to say we love each other because hes a guy and im a girl.... what do you think?  |
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Post by agoodcuppa on Oct 8, 2006 19:57:58 GMT
How you and the fella concerned feel about and treat each other is between you, him and no one else. Tell the others to mind their own business.
Who knows, one day you might get it together again.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2006 20:15:29 GMT
Yeah thats what me and my other mates said i can imagine us being like ross and rachel off of friends....i think it might me sooner than later! were trying out being single firstly but we are really good mates. close as ever
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Post by donnytom on Oct 8, 2006 22:59:00 GMT
Good for you that despite whatever these circumstances may be, it seems you can both be quite mature about all this!
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Post by Tomcakes on Oct 9, 2006 5:28:49 GMT
Love doesn't have to be of the "bf/gf" type, you know.
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Post by Oracle on Oct 9, 2006 7:51:49 GMT
For goodness sake! I have a single female friend and have known her for 10 years or so. We were colleagues, and we then we worked together in a different environment on a self-employed basis. I am happpily married and have been for 20 years now, and my friend rings up and also speaks to my wife: She says "love to ...". Friendship with someone of the opposite sex is more important than a romantic relationship in my experience, and if it remains platonic so be it, but if it developes, then excellent. However a good friendship will revert to a platonic state if the romance dies.
Sounds a nice arrangement, and one that will go its own way. Best wishes to you both.
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